{"id":542,"date":"2001-03-14T22:06:35","date_gmt":"2001-03-14T21:06:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.grayblog.co.uk\/?p=542"},"modified":"2001-03-14T22:06:35","modified_gmt":"2001-03-14T21:06:35","slug":"unusually-i-can-actually-empathise","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/2001\/03\/14\/unusually-i-can-actually-empathise\/","title":{"rendered":"unusually, I can actually empathise"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>unusually, I can actually empathise with <a href=\"http:\/\/www.plasticbag.org\/2001_03_11_secret_archive.shtml#2777187\">Tom<\/a> at the moment, although it sounds like he has made a bit more progress than me. To Tom, my advice would be this &#8211; find a particularly trustworthy and patient friend and use them to offload all your unrequited phone calls and emails. That theory is working for me right now &#8211; hopefully, that friend will be able to give you good advice like &#8220;chill out, be cool, take it easy&#8221; and so on. This course of action will save you from appearing to be excessively &#8220;keen&#8221;.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>unusually, I can actually empathise with Tom at the moment, although it sounds like he has made a bit more progress than me. To Tom, my advice would be this &#8211; find a particularly trustworthy and patient friend and use them to offload all your unrequited phone calls and emails. That theory is working for [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[20],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-542","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-old-blogging"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/542","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=542"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/542\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=542"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=542"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/grayblog.co.uk\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=542"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}