Not a good morning this

Not a good morning this morning. Joanna and I have decided that we really don’t have the right stuff to make our relationship work, which is one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. It’s difficult, because we both love one another and have shedloads in common, but we’re just not strong enough, either of us, to provide what the other needs.
I think it is the first time in my life that a decision to stop a relationship has been truly mutual. In a way it is easier, as the hurt is more evenly shared than in a dumper/dumpee scenario. And because we both feel it, hopefully it will be for the best in the long run.
Still, I feel pretty pants right now.